Friends or foes?

Stacy Lockwood: [to Angela before leaving the car] You're weirder than I thought. - A Friend to Die For, 1994.

I don't even know how to begin. Work is stressful enough. And now, this.
Who will you call a friend? or even best friend? I think the bf and I are really suited for each other in this aspect. We are too good a friend to our friends and best friends. This may all sound childish you think. HA. What best friend?! You are well over your teen age to be troubled over friendship! HA. But let me just say, either you have no true friends, can't admit this fact, not a good friend material yourself, don't need friends, or so damn lucky that you and your bff or bmf are just meant to be!

Friendships problems always gets to me. After all these years, I've learn enough. If it can affect you so much, it only means that you had cared a lot and you had done a lot. You made sacrifices and done so much for the friend, but only to get nothing in the end. You expected the same from him/her, but you get none. Of course, expectations only lead to disappointments. Unless you are so selfless. To make all these even worst, like a double blow, is that your friend took all that for granted.

When you decided to not stood up for him/her once, finally, he/she blew his/her top. Then it hits you. Hard. That this 'friend' is just plain selfish. The friend don't see what you have done for him all these while, he only see what you didn't do for him this time round.

Imagine all these situations plus additional 'combos'. That this friend is not alone, he/she have a similar partner. Or how about all these have some blood relationship tangling somewhere. And even, they are all bff and bmf of each other. Plus, a protective one who always give grey answers. Last but not least, the whip cream on top of my caramel latte, their lack of communication among themselves created problems for other. Oh wait, the cocoa powder on top of my whip cream, they don't admit their lack of communication/show their true self to each other?

Please don't judge me. I'm not saying I'm selfless or how great a friend I am. I may be assuming too. I am a person who needs my friends. I want to be her bridesmaid when she gets hitched. But if things won't work out, it just won't.

Cher A/W '2009

Over the week, I had this really yummy japanese ice cream at Ion!
It's suppose to be black tea flavoured according to the lady.
But it taste more like kuru sato 黒糖.
Nevertheless it was good!!


This was breakfast. This is the first time I added fruits into yogurt.
I usually just eat off the tub. That morning in the office I actually bothered to cut some.


I got my Cher finally!
I was lemming for them since their Volume 1, 2008-2009 A/W collection,

then came the Volume 2, 2009 S/S collection.

Now its their Volume 3, 2009-2010 A/W collection!



Volume 3 has got to be the best buy of all!
Yipee! Im glad I hold on.
This will their last issue that comes with the eco bags so get them before they are all gone!
I like the Volume 2 too... the colours are sooo sweet!

So this issue came with a small lunch bag and a big tote.
I've been carrying the lunch bag out for lunch. LOVE.

I carried the big one yesterday!
Couldn't get a OFTD pic.


I have to take a pic of myself with the headband! cos I like it soo much!!
I got it from H&M in Hong Kong so many months back and I only wore it today.


I met up with my dearest SX last night.
After so many meet ups, we finally remember to get a pic!


It was nice to see him. He's full of bulls. Telling me about S class?! I almost doze off when he tell me the interior of the car, backseats and all.
Silly him.

Alrite! Im going to go get ready to head out.
The bf's bringing me to ice skate!
I've never ice skate before!
Have a good weekend!

Happy Birthday Cherie

It's my best friend, Cherie's birthday!
I treat her to a makeover at Bobbi Brown!


This is the first time I see her with full makeup!
Looking gorgeous!

And guess wad?
Cherie doing a makeover for Cherie!


There was a little japan feast at the supermarket.






Korean bbq for dinner.
Its not as good as I thought.
I've yet to find one really good Korean bbq restaurant. Hmpf.




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Im using my new Kate eye palette.
But it's so difficult to take a good pic of the makeup!
The colours just don't show.

Some weekends ago

I wanted this so much, cos its purple & pink!
It wasn't easy to catch at all. Larry wanted to give up.
But I caught it in the end!

And Boo looks adorable!




Victorious smile!

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Last Friday I met up with Lisa for some catching up.
That girl could not wake up!


These kept me occupied. It felt great and peaceful to be enjoying a latte with a book early on a weekday morning.

Talking to Lisa and hearing all those stories make me understand yet again that I am really too gullible. Make me realize that looks are deceiving. That people are not trustworthy. To think that I even shed tears for you. And those are all packs of lies. Will I ever learn my lesson?

Well. Whatever. Im glad I do not have anything to do with you now.






Our props. They look beautiful right?!

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Miracles in life

I went to visit a good friend yesterday at the hospital.

She became a mother.
Looking at her carrying her baby in her arms,
a wave of emotions swept over me.
This is one of the miracles in life, isn't it?
My friend and her husband have created a life.
And she have reached another chapter in her life.
I wish her and her new family the best of health and a eternity of happiness.

I got an invitation to the 1st anniversary party of Benefit.
But it was a miserable 'party'.
Pathetic cupcakes. Bottles of juices.
No comfy sofas to seat. No DJ.
No promotional prices on their products.
Only promotional sets which cost up to hundred odd.
You practically stand around at their counters and do nothing.
I was there for like a good hmmm... 7 mins? and I was outta there.


The door gift. At least their samples look cute.

I understand from Shermaine that you get these when you purchase online.
I haven't bought their stuffs online before. I only got their Realness of Concealness,
which I asked a friend to buy for me before Benefit was launched in Singapore.
And I don't think I'll be buying any of their products soon too.






Dinner with my gfs.
Have fun in Korea, Birdy!!

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